Good-bye Lia

While The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down, by Anne Fadiman, is not about religion, it is all about religion. The tragic story of Lia Lee is one where Hmong lives, completely immersed in what we would term “religion,” came into conflict with American perceptions of what religion should be. One of the events in Lia’s life involved the government removing her from her parents for their failure to follow doctor’s orders. Fadiman notes that this has been an issue is court cases with Christian Scientists and Jehovah’s Witnesses and other groups that refuse certain kinds of medical treatment for religious reasons. Adults may refuse—it is their constitutional right—but children cannot be subjected to an adult’s religion if it endangers their lives. Here is the rub; American religion only stretches so far. Sure, many of the faithful pray for loved ones, but they also trust the doctor’s knowledge. Not too put too fine a point on it, God doesn’t seem to do the healing unless the physician is involved. For many from traditional religions, like the Lee family, that is hardly trust at all.

Much of the problem in Lia’s case came down to taking the soul seriously. It is clear that the Hmong believe, really believe in the soul. It is the essence of a person. Reductionism declares that when all the matter is burned off, no soul remains to be found. Lia’s parents, however, could tell whether her soul was present or not just by looking in her eyes. Although she never recovered from her major seizure, the physicians had tried to prepare her parents for Lia’s immanent death. Removing her from the feeding tubes and sterile conditions of the hospital, the Lees took her home where she survived for years, although in a persistent vegetive state. Even as the book ends with Lia at seven, they are hoping for her soul to return. Lia died just two months ago, at the age of thirty. She was diagnosed as terminal at the age of four.

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The story of Lia Lee is sad and one with no real villains (after the Secret War in Laos, and its aftermath). One of the most interesting aspects revolves around how the Hmong observe American religion. Well-meaning missionaries tried to convert them, but psychological studies have demonstrated that those who are the worst off are those who converted to western religions. At one point a Hmong girl, at a sacrificial ceremony to placate the spirits, tells Fadiman that she’s a Mormon. In another instance a Christian family tried to give their Hmong neighbors advice before a long drive, telling them they should pray to the Lord, not their ancestors. The Hmong honestly replied that the Lord had given him too many problems in America. It seems to me that the real issue here is just how seriously religion is taken. To the Hmong, it is their life. In capitalist America, it is very difficult to make religion your life. Even clergy have to have bank accounts, bills, and oil changes—all very secular aspects of life. If religion were taken as seriously here as among the Hmong, we would be facing a very different race this November.

5 thoughts on “Good-bye Lia

    • Steve Wiggins

      Thanks, Burke. I just found out about her death myself. The book has been on my reading list for months, but I’m sure you know how that goes…

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  1. The trick with Christianity is that you have to be in the world, but not of it. I don’t live in a cave and wait for God to deliver food to me, but I believe that if I needed to do that God could very well hold up his end of the bargain. By the same token, my faith informs everything in my life and I hope allows me to better serve my family, my friends and all those I come in contact with. I can agree with you that far too many Americans have compartmentalized their faith or have chosen to use it as a tool to whip everyone around them, rather than bringing the Good News and goodness with them wherever they are. Too much Christian charity is delivered to foreign countries on mission-flavored vacations. The novel I’m reading right now showcases a mission hospital in an African country where they can’t feed their patients, but they have Bibles falling out of all the closets. It may be only a novel, but I think it points out the problem with many well-intentioned Christian endeavors. But I do not see this as a failure of Christianity. I see this as people being human. A humanitarian project doesn’t have to be Christian to make mistakes – it only needs to be human.

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    • Steve Wiggins

      I think I understand where you’re coming from Jane. My observations, growing up evangelical, were that religion was an overlay to all aspects of life. For the Hmong and other indigenous peoples, religion is life. We are too Greek in our thinking in the western world to treat life this way, or so it seems to me.

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      • I think you’re probably right in a general sense. That was certainly what Christ found wrong with the scribes and Pharisees. Faith that doesn’t get past the designated worship day or activity that isn’t heart deep is just religion.

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